Search Moody's Musings

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

My Dream Guy

I decided my PARTNERS entry was just too trite to continue existing.

I have been thinking a lot about my ideal future, and that means also thinking about my ideal partner. While I am bisexual, which I define as falling in love with A PERSON, not their gonads, and not more than one at a time (that's called "polysexual," btw,) I have a dream of being in love with a man who is in love with me, who is as amazed and humbled by the processes of pregnancy and birth and child-rearing as I am, who would sing to our child while she was still in my womb, care for her and me after the birth, and be an equal partner and parent in every sense.

I dream of being serenaded by my love, spontaneously and on romantic occasions, and singing with him at home and on stage.

We will play together, laugh together, celebrate together, do rituals together, be best friends, explore new places and hobbies, learn together, teach each other, respect each other, and love each other unconditionally and without limits.

We will support each other in our individual goals, and trust each other. We'll go on adventures as a couple and as a family, and we'll have loads of stories to tell our grandkids, and great grandkids.

We'll leave each other spontaneous romantic surprises, be affectionate and sensual with each other, and know each other so well we can speak with our eyes.

Okay, Dream Guy, where are you? <3